BellaOnline.com the self-proclaimed "voice of women" has for some unknown reason(not that reason could have anything to do with it) cast a clearly delusional, hyper-repressed, sexophobe (yep, I made up that word & I'm gonna keep using it too!) as their one & only "voice" for Spirituality.
A few of the many sexophobic words & thoughts of Linda Sue Grimes, PhD...
We know intuitively that indulgence in the sensations produced during the sex act rewards us only with shame and suffering.
and it gets worse...
The reason we are able to fool ourselves into thinking that sex is important to us is that we have falsely connected it to love. Love and sex have nothing in common, except in that grand delusion. Let's consider the differences between love and sex: love is the calm, unconditional acceptance of another human being, the recognition that this person deserves the best care we can offer, the best service we can render to this individual's soul, including the possibility that what might be best for this person is our letting this person go, letting this person seek care and service from others, and none from us; that is love; if we can still feel love for the individual, even without contact, then we know the love is genuine. However, sex is bodies manipulating each other (or one another, as the case may be) until the genitalia of each person involved violently erupts in spasms, and the heart pounds, and lungs heave to keep up with the violent action of the blood. This act is supposedly something we crave, something we hold in such high regard, something we limit to marriage, or something we claim is everybody's birthright and therefore place no limits on it. The limits are totally irrelevant: sex is sex no matter if the partners are same gender, opposite gender, love each other, use each other, abuse each other, or if we engage only in self-sex, or use instruments to achieve that spasm. The result is, the desired goal is always that violent eruption, that orgasm that we covet so much.
and if that wasn't sad enough...
...And that is part of the great delusive power of sex: that intelligent, open-minded people, who basically understand a wide variety of phenomena, will close their eyes to the possibility that there are those among us who have found the sex monster devoid of the great promises of pleasure and happiness and instead have discovered that that monster is a Grand Delusion leaving its victims with pain and destruction.
I don't use this blog to rant. The purpose of eGasms iz to tease out, explore & roll around in stuff that truly turns me, and hopefully you, ON!
Last mon, I opened up the second season of Orgasmic Liberation Initiations offered through the Temple Of Wombn. Wombn have more than enough internal hangups, external persecutions and hormonal surprises to deal with without online organizations supposedly there to provide us solace, instead serving as broadcast stations to legitimize this kind of insane crap!
Ms. Grimes iz clearly not well.
Her sex=violence, "sex as monster" imagery suggests she's likely the victim of some unresolved rape trauma. I'm truly sad for her.
What's unconscionable to me, as a wombn and as a healer, iz that the owners of BellaOnline.com would serve as enabler to this poor wombn's delusions by giving them a platform from which to inject 315,000 daily visitors with this bile!
So do me and wombn everywhere (& the deluded Ms. Grimes as well) a favor, by writing to the owners of BellOnline.com [email protected] , and telling them to FIRE HER NOW, and fill her position with one, or more of the many, many true experts and guiding lights in the field of wombn's spirituality.
The person who has NOT lived his life in celebration is ready to die for anything ..... Osho
Enuf said!
I'm gonna pet & cuddle my "monster" ;~)
~Live Orgasmically~
